What Is An Officiant?
So.... what exactly is an officiant?
officiant [ uh-fish-ee-uhnt ]​​​​​​​
a person who is in charge of or leads a ceremony or other public event
In Colorado, your wedding officiant needs to be someone who ha the legal authority to marry couples (check out the blog post - 'Can "Anyone" Marry People In Colorado?'). 
Ideally, your officiant is someone who is adept at public speaking, who knows their way around Colorado's marriage laws, and who has a skill for crafting a ceremony that really represents your relationship. Sometimes you'll have a friend or family member who has all the necessary traits to be a great officiant
Can "Anyone" Marry People In Colorado?
This is a common theme on message boards all across social media in Colorado, the idea that just "anyone" can marry people in Colorado and they don't have to be ordained to do it.
Unfortunately, it's wrong.
Colorado is a unique state in that it recognises both self-uniting marriages and common law marriages, so we have many situations that require careful thought. Since marriage is probably the biggest and most important legal contract you will ever enter into, it's probably a good idea to understand what is, and is not, legal.
Disclaimer - I am not a lawyer and nothing in this article shall be construed as legal advice! I have been an ordained minister since 2009 and have performed hundreds of weddings in Colorado and multiple US states, and am the current president of the Colorado Association of Wedding Officiants (CAWO).
First and foremost, let's look at the Colorado Statute that deals with the solemnization of marriages: Colorado Revised Statutes Title 14. Domestic Matters § 14-2-109. Solemnization and registration of marriages:
(1) A marriage may be solemnized by a judge of a court, by a court magistrate, by a retired judge of a court, by a public official whose powers include solemnization of marriages, by the parties to the marriage, or in accordance with any mode of solemnization recognized by any religious denomination or Indian nation or tribe.  Either the person solemnizing the marriage or, if no individual acting alone solemnized the marriage, a party to the marriage shall complete the marriage certificate form and forward it to the county clerk and recorder within sixty-three days after the solemnization.  Any person who fails to forward the marriage certificate to the county clerk and recorder as required by this section shall be required to pay a late fee in an amount of not less than twenty dollars.  An additional five-dollar late fee may be assessed for each additional day of failure to comply with the forwarding requirements of this subsection (1) up to a maximum of fifty dollars.  For purposes of determining whether a late fee shall be assessed pursuant to this subsection (1), the date of forwarding shall be deemed to be the date of postmark.
So what does this mean for couples getting married in Colorado?
The first thing to know is that as the couple wanting to get married, you can marry yourselves! Yes, you can perform your own wedding ceremony. You procure your marriage licence, declare that you agree to be married to each other and pronounce yourselves married, sign as the officiating parties and parties to the marriage, and return the licence to the issuing county clerk's office, and it is absolutely legal. This is known as self-solemnizing.
The catch, however, is that you can only have the two of you perform the ceremony. Sometimes, for a small and intimate ceremony, a self-solemnized wedding is sweet and romantic and perfect, but once you start getting into larger weddings it does pay to have someone do the officiating for you, and it's usually better to have a professional to do the job. 
Any third party who officiates a ceremony has to be a legal officiant - one of the 4 types of people listed in the statute: a current judge/magistrate or retired judge, an elected official (like the Governor) whose duties include the solemnization of marriages, an ordained member of any religious denomination, or an authority with a Native American nation or tribe.
A legal officiant, including the parties to the marriage, has the authority to solemnize a marriage in Colorado, which means you are married when the legal officiant pronounces you (or the couple pronounces themselves) married. Even if the marriage licence gets lost, or isn't filed, you have still been legally married. Completing the bottom half of the marriage licence only records that the marriage took place, it does not constitute the marriage itself. 
Fun fact - Colorado does not require witnesses, so anyone can sign as a witness, even fur babies!​​​​​​​
A professional officiant will (or should!) know the ins and outs of Colorado marriage laws. For instance, holding a "wedding" ceremony for a couple where one party's divorce isn't quite finalised yet without a licence still constitutes a marriage ceremony that can legally be considered a common law marriage, and creates a bigamy crime, which is a felony (Class 6) for the already married person, and a misdemeanor for others who knowingly facilitated the marriage. Yes, things can get very complicated!
A professional officiant is someone who should be able to fill in the ceremony time slot (ask your wedding planner about how precious a wedding timeline is!) with all of the elements that are meaningful to you, along with injecting your love story and personalities into your ceremony. They should hold your guests' attention, keep the ceremony moving along at the proper pace, and know what to do if something goes wrong.
Still, some couples would rather have a friend or family member perform the ceremony for them, as they feel it would be more special or personal to have someone they know and love marry them. The good news is, that this is absolutely possible! It is as simple as your loved one going online to one of the many, many sources that offer ordination, most often completely free, and it will avoid a lot of potential complications! 

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